Spring concerts

It was a tradition when I was growing up that there were spring concerts -- notice the word "concerts" is plural. Yes there were several.

I know somewhere in our boxes there are pictures of me playing or singing in various spring concerts.

In Runnemede, spring concerts were as much a tradition as Christmas concerts. In grade school I was in the school choir. I learned so many "show" tunes -- it seems that's what we sang, mostly.

Why am I bringing this up now? Well, I was watching South Pacific -- or two minutes of it -- a few days ago, and it reminded me of those grade school spring concerts. I remember singing songs like Once in Love with Amy, Big D, Old Man River, and Oh, what a beautiful morning.

The time frame is a little fuzzy, though. Did I sing those songs in grade school or high school? In grade school we practiced in Mrs. Renseller's classroom because it had a piano and because the doors which divided her room from Miss Charmin's room could be opened so that the "choir" of 60 children could all fit in the desks in those two classrooms. Mr. Renseller was a great choir leader. So patient with us and our young voices. There were actually two chorus groups -- the really young children, grades 1 through 4, and then the older children, grades 5 through 8.

I don't recall who attended the grade school spring concert nor where it was held, probably in the gymnasium with folding chairs for the attendees to sit upon.

Practice for the spring concert started right after Christmas. And we didn't just sing "show" tunes. I recall singing This old house (By Stuart Hamblem), Climb Every Mountain (well taht's a "show" tune), Amazing Grace, Battle Hymn of the Republic (before the Mormon Tabernacle Choir made it popular), and various southern spirituals. At Christmas we sang mostly religious songs, but that's a tale for another day.

When I went to high school, I continued singing in the school choir. I was in the full choir, the women's chorus, and the orchestra. All three of these groups had a part in the spring concert for the high school. It was an exciting evening for me. I loved it. I loved it until....

When Alan came into my life, that spring of 1960, I didn't want to go to the spring concert as a participant. I wanted to be in the audience with my sweetheart. Well, that didn't happen. However, I didn't show up the night of the concert. Alan and I did something else, and I just didn't go to the concert. I felt so guilty -- and I should have -- not that I had a great voice or was a great violinist -- but my "part" was missing.

The next day, the instrumental music teacher and voice teacher both asked me where I was. I told them I wasn't able to make it -- WHY? I didn't want to tell them that I was playing miniature golf with Alan, so I said I just couldn't get there. (Like it was a 10 minute walk to the school). Neither of those teachers were pleased, but didn't drop me from any of the school music groups.

My senior year (1960-61) before each concert, the teachers would check with me to make sure I was going to attend -- it sort of became a joke to them to make sure they didn't waste the space I took up on stage if they didn't have to.

One other annual spring concert was the recital given at the Hegeman School of Music where I studied piano, organ, violin, and music theory. I had to prepare for my piano recital, my organ recital, and the orchestra concert after all the students presented their solo numbers.

Spring was a busy time in the area of music in Runnemede, and I loved it.

It's prom season

Yes, it is. I was not permitted to dance when I was growing up. Dancing was a sin. Getting that close to someone who was not of the same sex as you were was a sin. So dancing was out. Skating was in, though, so I went skating with boys, instead of dancing. Never got it in my head why one was okay and the other was not.

I know some of the older (older than I) folks thought that dances like The Twist or The Watusi were obscene -- all that gyrating. So, I never went to either the Junior Prom or the Senior Prom. Back then there were two to choose from. Of course, the Senior Prom was the highlight. For me, however, if I had been able to attend a prom, it would have been the Junior Prom because that was the year my dear husband and I were "dating" (while he was in the states). He was not permitted to attend dances either, so going to the Prom with him was not an option. Another thing that made it impossible for me to attend a prom was the cost of a gown.

In the late 50s and early 60s girls wore ball gowns to the Prom. They were long, flowing, some had trains, most had lots and lots of tulle. See the pictures above? The one I coveted, and tried to win by selling magazines (it was a prize) was the pink one in the "Nadine" picture -- the one with all the ruffles on it. At the time I thought that was the most gorgeous dress I had ever seen.

I walked past the case in which it was displayed every day and prayed, yes I actually prayed, that I would sell enough magazines to win that dress (earn that dress). I didn't do it. I was bested by another girl, who probably prayed just as much as I did that she would win that dress. If I were picking a dress now from those at the top of this BLOG, I would pick the pink one on the left. The strapless one.

Back at the time I was looking at dresses to wear to the dances I wasn't going to be able to attend, I would NEVER have looked for a strapless gown. I mean, I had absolutely NOTHING to hold it up with. I didn't even have much of a waist. I was straight, up and down, with a little bump where my derriere is located.

So, that's the story on the Prom for me and mine.